Daily AncestorDrapery
Carved drapery on a Victorian gravestone stands for mourning, recalling the black cloth that covered a home's parlor while the body lay there.
When funerals were held at home, families draped the parlor in black. Victorian carvers turned the swags, fringes and tassels into stone, so the sign of mourning stayed after the body was carried out.
Drapery covers urns, obelisks, crosses and pedestals and can also frame a central object like a Bible or a portrait, as if a curtain had been drawn back. It is one of the most common Victorian motifs and on its own means mourning in general.
As seen in a recordTown cemetery, Midwest or South, 1850 to 1910
Fringed drapery carved over the top of a marble tablet: Our Mother, Eliza J. Bumgardner, 1823 to 1891
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