Daily AncestorUrn
An urn on a gravestone is a classical mourning symbol for the dead person's remains or soul; it was decorative, since cremation was rare.
The Romans kept ashes in urns, and when neoclassical taste reached America after the Revolution, carvers made the urn the main gravestone image. Cremation was very rare in America then, so these urns were pure symbols.
Readings vary: the body's remains, the soul, or immortality. An urn carved alone or set on top of a monument is common through the 19th century, often draped with cloth or paired with a willow.
As seen in a recordNew England or New York burying ground, 1790 to 1860
Urn on a pedestal in the arch: Sacred to the memory of Mr. Elihu Barstead, who died Dec. 12, 1819, Aet. 54
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