Daily AncestorUrn and willow
An urn and willow on a gravestone is a mourning symbol in classical style, the most popular carving on American stones from the late 1700s to the mid-1800s.
A weeping willow bending over an urn on a pedestal became the favorite image on the square-shouldered slate stones that came into style around 1800. The willow was an old sign of mourning and the urn a Roman vessel for ashes. Wording changed in the same period, from Here lies toward In memory of.
The motif is part of a new sentimental style of mourning, aimed at the living. It faded by the mid-1800s. Because it was so widespread, it mainly dates a stone; it says nothing special about the person.
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